No.155158[Reply]
A few fundamental things here.
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1. Sexual orientation is not the same thing as preference for one kind of stimulation. Wanting to have sex with men and enjoying anal stimulation are just differen things. There's plenty of gay men who do not enjoy having anal sex. And there's plenty of straight men who enjoy anal sex, both giving and receiving. Pegging is a thing, after all. Lesbians a well. Women are absolutely fingering and fist-fucking each other out there.
2. Having a dildo is only the very first step. You will need to find out how to use it in a way that is pleasurable to you. That means angle, rhythm, intensity. And of course anal is better if you properly clean yourself out first. It's also kind of important that you have a dildo that can stimulate you in a way that you enjoy. It's kinda hard to feel very aroused if you are in pain from inserting a very big or hard dildo. And it's just as difficult if it's too small to push any of your buttons.
Since you seem to at least know where your prostate is, see if and how you can reach it, how much stimulation of what kind you enjoy and then go from there. Also try to leverage your abdominal and pelvic muscles. Those will provide counter-pressure against your prostate and penis root. Which obviously will help you feel out how to go from dildo in ass to orgasm.
This is a learning process and getting frustrated is not exactly making it easy to get off. It sounds trite, but playing around and exploring is the mindset you want to have, not pushing button to receive orgasm.
You may also want to have more than 1 dildo. Having several options of various shapes, sizes and firmness is a good idea when you don't know what you are even into. Just make sure you have a broad base on them so they don't get lost, use plenty lube and find out what you like.
Also do not expect to just jump right into taking a 12" horsecock like a complete cockslut and moaning like a whore.
These are very experienced buttsluts.
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No.156390
>>155528the only reason to stop masturbating is to have bigger cum after a break